A Mother’s Story: When Your Child is Diagnosed with an MPN

No one can prepare you for a cancer diagnosis of a child. Our daughter was four years old and began to complain about headaches. I assumed it was her eyes and made an appointment with an optometrist. Her sight was perfectly normal. A visit to her pediatrician lasted an hour with little insight, only suggestions to watch her diet, limit TV time and give her lots of water. She rarely watched TV and carried water with her throughout the day. Our diet doesn’t include sugar except from fresh fruit and we don’t eat boxed or canned food. I wasn’t optimistic. Eventually, her headaches became more severe on occasion, similar to migraines. We were sent to a neurologist. He requested blood work after she underwent an MRI. Thankfully, the blood work identified the problem-ET or essential thrombocythemia. We had never heard of it and had no idea what this meant for the future. A hematologist became our savior. With the proper diagnosis and medication, our daughter began to feel better, albeit a few side effects from the meds. Yogurt is a staple to help with GI issues, and a nap and early bedtime help fatigue. Yes, our little girl had what I would call fatigue. Our lives have changed but we do not let her ET control us. We control her ET. We manage her diagnosis as part of our daily lives as we would manage any other chronic disease. That is not to say it’s been easy. We have our moments of fear and doubt, but that doesn’t last as long as it used to. We keep very good records of her doctor visits, her blood levels and her overall health. We ask how she is feeling and pay attention to any changes that could be due to her ET. She is now 12 and enjoying a normal childhood. We are looking at Interferfon as a possible “next protocol,” if we think it will be better for her.  We stay informed and are very pleased to see all of the clinical trials and new drugs on the horizon. It’s easy to say don’t panic if your child is diagnosed with an MPN. I would simply say, gather the facts, stay informed, be the voice they cannot be, and remember to take good care of yourself.

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Special Interview: Living with an MPN in Childhood

Diagnosed at age seven with Essential Thrombocythemia, Portia shared her story at the 2nd Annual Pediatric & Young Adult MPN Patient Program.

Portia, a young adult MPN patient, shared her story at the 2nd annual Pediatric & Young Adult Program

Do you remember experiencing any symptoms?

I had occasional nosebleeds that would last about twenty minutes or so. But over time, the time decreased to about ten minutes. I also experience fatigue, especially when I’m sick, all I do is sleep to try and regain any energy. Also, I’m very active and I play competitive squash, so I do experience fatigue more than an average person.

How do you cope with essential thrombocythemia (ET) symptoms and/or side effects from Hydroxyurea?

I’m very lucky that I don’t really experience too many symptoms, but I usually push through any pain that I have since I’m such a wimp about medication. I have not had any side effects from Hydroxyurea. For fatigue, I don’t take any other medication, I pretty much just work hard and try to be smart about how I utilize my energy. When playing squash, I work extra hard to make up for my fatigue, but if I really can’t breathe due to lack of oxygen, I will talk to my coach and ask for a small break to recuperate. Most coaches are very reasonable and will allow a break.

Has ET curtailed your involvement in school activities?  Sports?

When I was younger, elementary and middle school age, I would occasionally have to miss school for lab appointments, so I would have to make up work. One symptom of ET is fatigue, so I do have to deal with that in sports. But I also have Hemoglobin H, which I believe has a bigger impact on my fatigue in sports than ET. But overall, I still go about my life and continue to do the things I love.

How do you explain what you have to your friends?

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve done a lot more of my own research to further understand my condition, but to my friends, I explain that I have way too many platelets, which help clot your blood when you get a cut, and because of that, I bleed for longer.

What advice would you give other younger individuals with an MPN when peers say they don’t look sick or they’re faking?

I would tell them to do their best to ignore their hateful comments and try to explain their condition by telling them it’s something internal rather than external, that’s why they don’t appear sick. And most important, find friends who won’t judge you, and people who do, clearly aren’t your real friends, for real friends should accept you no matter what.

You are very energetic and positive, when you reach out to others your age who aren’t feeling well, what do you say to encourage them?

First, I would listen to their concerns and possible issues, and then I would tell them to keep their head held high and know that it does get better. This is just a phase and eventually, the negative parts will fade away. Also, it’s very important to know who your close friends are and be able to talk to them since many kids would rather talk to their friends rather than a parent or even a doctor since it can be intimidating. I would also say, take one day at a time and find joy in the little things, whether it’s going for ice cream or just taking a nice walk.

If you could wave a wand and change one thing in the world of MPNs, what would you change?

Personally, I would change the medicine. I really hate swallowing pills, so I would much prefer something fun to eat or drink as my medicine. I’m also very strange and would much rather have the medicine get injected into me, which I know is an option, but the majority of people aren’t a big fan of needles.

 

 

 

A Mother’s Story: Children DO Get MPNs-Our Loss May Save Your Child

In memory of Jordan

In 2014, our daughter Jordan, age 14, complained of headaches and neck pain. Ultimately the doctors diagnosed her with mastoiditis, with a rare complication of cerebral venous sinus thrombosis (a 5% chance of that complication). The doctors then fixated on a diagnosis of migraines before, during and after shunt evaluations, placement and revisions.

In January 2015, unbeknownst to us, one doctor mentioned polycythemia vera as a possible diagnosis. He requested a hematology consult, but no action was taken. Due to the CVST, Jordan developed papilledema and required shunting due to intracranial hypertension. She was at risk of losing her vision.

Jordan suffered from headaches, nausea, vomiting, blurry vision, joint and bone aches and pains, and itching which was diagnosed as an allergic reaction to medication she had taken. Nobody looked at the bigger picture. One doctor said her issues were the result of complications due to migraines. After which,  every other doctor followed suit despite the symptoms, abnormal imaging, and abnormal lab results. All of this happened over a three year period.

In February 2018, Jordan, now 17, was diagnosed with portal vein thrombosis. Her symptoms remained unchanged for three years, yet the doctors still fixated on migraines. At this point, I started doing my own online research and requested testing for polycythemia vera (PV). We were told by a hematologist that tests including a bone marrow biopsy, were not necessary as her labs were normal. They were not.  She was reluctantly tested for the JAK2 mutation on February 21, 2018. Nobody read the results.

On March 4, 2018, we were told Jordan could possibly have an MPN and a bone marrow biopsy was needed. The biopsy was performed on March 5, 2018. Two days later, our Jordan passed away on March 7, 2018.

The medical community failed our daughter. We were told on March 4 they didn’t test her earlier because “this isn’t seen in children.” We told them this was no excuse not to test, diagnose and treat. Their expectations resulted in our daughter’s death. Instead of trying to find out why our daughter was sick, and doing further investigation into her MPN symptoms, they labeled her with a default diagnosis that did not fit.

Afterward, we were not told of her official diagnosis. No doctor called us. Patient Relations refused to speak to us and suggested we request our daughter’s records and have our primary care doctor review and advise. We found out six weeks after she passed away she suffered from primary myelofibrosis.

If Jordan were tested for JAK2 and or had a bone marrow biopsy in January 2015, when one doctor requested hematology do an exam because of suspicion of PV she would still be here. She could have had treatment. She could have had a stem cell transplant. Due to lack of awareness, ignorance, ego, expectation or a combination of these, she was left to suffer. We lost our beautiful daughter because they didn’t want to look beyond migraines. The sad part is that she was at a well-known level 3 tertiary care children’s hospital in southern CA.

We have now become advocates for awareness. We want doctors who see children not to be swayed by “expectation” as MPNs can affect anyone regardless of age, gender, or ethnicity. We want more research. The medical community needs to be educated. We advocate for funding. We advocate for Jordan. We are sharing her story on Facebook in the hopes of raising awareness, www.facebook.com/jordansstory .

MPN Advocacy & Education International’s Pediatric and Young Adult MPN initiative advocates for young patients. As part of that effort, we are in the process of creating a private, online, space for parents to communicate with each other and seek input from our Pediatric MPN advisors, Dr. Nicole Kucine, Weill Cornell and Dr. Linda Smith-Resar, Johns Hopkins Medicine. Click here to learn more about our Pediatric and Young Adult advocacy efforts 

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