A Caregiver’s Story: The Journey of a Spouse Through the Transplant Process

In March, MPN Advocacy & Education International highlighted the story of a recent stem cell patient, Andrea (click here to view story). This month, Andrea’s wife, Denise, shares her story as a caregiver in an interview with us. 

Andrea and Denise

How did you feel about your spouse’s decision to have a transplant? Were you apprehensive? 

I have been a part of Andrea’s medical journey since her diagnosis from ET to myleofibrosis.  I recall it took me about a week to learn how to pronounce the name correctly, and it has been an education ever since.  Being present during doctor appointments and multiple clinical trials provided first-hand information in addition to our ongoing discussions.  Observing and experiencing her five years of transfusion independence was a gift.  We took advantage of the opportunity to cycle and travel together and separately. Knowing the clinical trial would either end or the drug would quit working was only a matter of time.  And knowing how she physically felt prior to and after this time period played a role in my ‘wrapping my head’ around a possible future transplant.  All the while, we adjusted and modified activities as needed in order to continue allowing her to live life to the fullest.

When medications were no longer yielding the same results, and Andrea’s blood transfusions became more frequent, the doctors felt the alternatives were to continue clinical trials and hope for the best or discuss a stem cell or bone marrow transplant. I felt she was strong enough physically to beat the odds. It was now or never. I never doubted our decision, and have had no regrets.

How did you prepare yourself as a caregiver? 

In order to prepare, I scoured MD Anderson’s educational resources to understand what a ‘typical’ transplant journey would entail.  I developed multiple spreadsheets to track medications, nutrition, recovery, therapy, etc. I left the online myleofibrosis forum readings to Andrea as she would report her findings from reading first-hand accounts.  She also talked to many individuals who had had transplants, pummeling them with questions.

Another important piece of this journey was my mindset.  I focused on the end goal – her successful transplant and healthy recovery.  I looked at the journey in three parts:

  1. Pre-transplant
  2. Transplant/hospital stay
  3. Post-transplant

My goal was to have as much of her daily care and needs become second nature to me prior to her hospital release. When she was released, the additional environmental interaction was familiar without the distraction of ‘everything new all at one time’.

What tools did you find useful as the caregiver and advocate?

I created a 3-ring notebook with tabs to manage spreadsheets, medical records/test,  and doctor questions, so I could access information easily and quickly. I created a spreadsheet to track her medication schedule.  The purpose was to help me identify what was needed, including dosage when refilling medications both inside and outside the hospital. Click here to view medication tracker template. (For an Excel spreadsheet version of the attached please email kmichael@mpnadvocacy.com).

I also knew there was a good possibility that after her hospital release and within the first 100 days, she would have a trip to the emergency room and be re-admitted to the hospital.  Therefore, medications and ‘the notebook’ were kept in one location and easily picked up and transported with us.  The notebook was with us each time we visited the care team.

I created additional spreadsheets to help track:

  • Food and water daily intake and output. This is useful for doctor & nutrition appointments.
  • Daily stats: blood pressure, temperature, pain levels, exercise, spirometer therapy.  This is useful for tracking blood pressure and temperature anomalies.  Because if her temperature rose to a specific number, she had to go to the emergency room immediately.
  • Signs of graft vs host disease (GVHD).
  • I choose to stay in the hospital 24/7 to understand how the nursing staff/care team handled her care. This experience helped me understand her routine.
  • I figured if I learned her hospital routine, it would be familiar when she was released.
  • I used my smartphone and set alarms with labels so I knew what drugs were due when. (Used upon hospital release.)
  • I utilized Caring Bridge (www.caringbridge.org) to communicate Andrea’s transplant journey to her friends and family. My intent with each post was to create an engaging story yet convey “a day in her life” so everyone could get a sense of being there.

What was the most challenging part of your role and why?

Coming home and changing environments automatically kicked us back to normal behaviors and patterns. I felt we had to be more careful and diligent in preventing infection.  Even though we were home, I had to be more watchful because familiarity brings about a relaxed state.  Her immune system was developing and the risk of infection was too great.  Andrea quickly tired of me saying “No, you can’t do that or touch that.”

Once home, Andrea’s friends visited.  This was a considerable risk to her because the natural tendency is to hug and touch. To reduce her risk, we asked people to use hand sanitizer when they were around her.  We developed a routine where I would greet her friends first with a hug and explain she couldn’t hug yet. Andrea stood back a few feet to reduce her availability.

What I learned :

Every recovery and journey is different.

While it’s tempting, don’t measure your progress against someone else.  It’s your journey.  That goes for both the patient and caregiver!

The “notebook” was a great tool.  It kept us on schedule for all medications and were able to provide information to the doctors as needed.

The hospital care team staff is a critical part of your recovery.  Don’t opt for staying close to home if you feel a facility’s care team is better in another location.

Deciding where to have the transplant included researching the number of myleofibrosis transplants, versus other blood disease transplants, and the success that facility had.

Participate in the journey. I chose to shave my head at the same time Andrea did.  It sure made showering quick and easy!

Take in the outdoors and/or change the scenery.

Exercise or go for walks.  Listen to music.  Visit a friend. Go to the grocery store.  Do something to clear your head and regain perspective.

Have a confidante. It’s normal to question, or become frustrated, and to second guess.  But remember – it’s temporary.

You are the coach, cheerleader, and guardian all at once.  Embrace the many hats you will wear!

Click here to read Andrea’s Transplant Story 

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A Mother’s Story: Children DO Get MPNs-Our Loss May Save Your Child

In memory of Jordan

In 2014, our daughter Jordan, age 14, complained of headaches and neck pain. Ultimately the doctors diagnosed her with mastoiditis, with a rare complication of cerebral venous sinus thrombosis (a 5% chance of that complication). The doctors then fixated on a diagnosis of migraines before, during and after shunt evaluations, placement and revisions.

In January 2015, unbeknownst to us, one doctor mentioned polycythemia vera as a possible diagnosis. He requested a hematology consult, but no action was taken. Due to the CVST, Jordan developed papilledema and required shunting due to intracranial hypertension. She was at risk of losing her vision.

Jordan suffered from headaches, nausea, vomiting, blurry vision, joint and bone aches and pains, and itching which was diagnosed as an allergic reaction to medication she had taken. Nobody looked at the bigger picture. One doctor said her issues were the result of complications due to migraines. After which,  every other doctor followed suit despite the symptoms, abnormal imaging, and abnormal lab results. All of this happened over a three year period.

In February 2018, Jordan, now 17, was diagnosed with portal vein thrombosis. Her symptoms remained unchanged for three years, yet the doctors still fixated on migraines. At this point, I started doing my own online research and requested testing for polycythemia vera (PV). We were told by a hematologist that tests including a bone marrow biopsy, were not necessary as her labs were normal. They were not.  She was reluctantly tested for the JAK2 mutation on February 21, 2018. Nobody read the results.

On March 4, 2018, we were told Jordan could possibly have an MPN and a bone marrow biopsy was needed. The biopsy was performed on March 5, 2018. Two days later, our Jordan passed away on March 7, 2018.

The medical community failed our daughter. We were told on March 4 they didn’t test her earlier because “this isn’t seen in children.” We told them this was no excuse not to test, diagnose and treat. Their expectations resulted in our daughter’s death. Instead of trying to find out why our daughter was sick, and doing further investigation into her MPN symptoms, they labeled her with a default diagnosis that did not fit.

Afterward, we were not told of her official diagnosis. No doctor called us. Patient Relations refused to speak to us and suggested we request our daughter’s records and have our primary care doctor review and advise. We found out six weeks after she passed away she suffered from primary myelofibrosis.

If Jordan were tested for JAK2 and or had a bone marrow biopsy in January 2015, when one doctor requested hematology do an exam because of suspicion of PV she would still be here. She could have had treatment. She could have had a stem cell transplant. Due to lack of awareness, ignorance, ego, expectation or a combination of these, she was left to suffer. We lost our beautiful daughter because they didn’t want to look beyond migraines. The sad part is that she was at a well-known level 3 tertiary care children’s hospital in southern CA.

We have now become advocates for awareness. We want doctors who see children not to be swayed by “expectation” as MPNs can affect anyone regardless of age, gender, or ethnicity. We want more research. The medical community needs to be educated. We advocate for funding. We advocate for Jordan. We are sharing her story on Facebook in the hopes of raising awareness, www.facebook.com/jordansstory .

MPN Advocacy & Education International’s Pediatric and Young Adult MPN initiative advocates for young patients. As part of that effort, we are in the process of creating a private, online, space for parents to communicate with each other and seek input from our Pediatric MPN advisors, Dr. Nicole Kucine, Weill Cornell and Dr. Linda Smith-Resar, Johns Hopkins Medicine. Click here to learn more about our Pediatric and Young Adult advocacy efforts 

 Click here to download MPN Advocacy & Education International’s Pediatric & Young Adult Booklet

Join Us for the 2ndAnnual Pediatric & Young Adult MPN Program on May 16 in New York City

 

 

Watch Behind the Mystery: Living with Polycythemia Vera

The Lifetime Channel’s The Balancing Act featured a story this week on polycythemia vera (PV), with experts Dr. Richard T. Silver, a professor of medicine at NewYork–Presbyterian/Weill Cornell Medical Center, and Dr. Srdan Verstovsek of the MD Anderson Cancer Center, who discuss the latest inpatient care and clinical trials for PV, as well as the future for those living with PV as a chronic illness. Learn More

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A Patient’s Story: How I Diagnosed Myself


My journey with essential thrombocytosis (ET) began in May 2016.  Although I am sure I had it for at least four years prior to to that.  I self diagnosed myself after noticing my gums were bleeding when I brushed and flossed.  I am a dentist, so how could this be?  I have immaculate oral hygiene, floss and brush at least two times a day and get my teeth cleaned every three months.  A little voice from one of my lectures in dental school went off in my head;  I recalled my professor’s words, “in the absence of gum disease or dental issues, bleeding gums can indicate a blood cancer and you should refer your patient to their doctor immediately.”  I didn’t think I would be the one to need the referral.  After some research on Dr. Google I put the puzzle pieces together.  I had tingling fingers and toes for at least a few years and had actually gone to a neurologist who tested me for carpal tunnel syndrome.  Again, being a dentist, that is not unusual to get carpal tunnel. However, after that diagnosis was negative, I just brushed it off.  I had also had major hives a couple of years ago all over my legs,  I had gone to an immunologist and she said it was allergies and put me on allergy shots.  After they didn’t go away, I had gone to a primary who told me my symptoms were stress related, “psychogenic” as he called it and I needed to manage my stress.
Six months before my diagnosis, I had a case of vertigo.  Again, I went to my doctor who reassured me it was a viral infection and it would go away in a few days.  I never had vertigo again so I believed him.  No blood work or additional testing was done.
However, the bleeding gums and my professor’s voice was what made me suspicious.  I started researching blood cancers and put all my symptoms together for what pointed toward ET.  I took charge of my own health and went to a hematologist and asked him to test me for JAK2 mutation.  Sure enough that came back positive and my bone marrow biopsy confirmed it.  Platelets were in 900 range and I just didn’t feel like myself.  He insisted I start on Anagralide that day and that I was going to stroke any minute.
I wasn’t comfortable with his rush to treatment as I had read a lot on ET prior to my diagnosis, so I knew that Anagralide was definitely not first line of treatment and neither is Hydrea if you are at low risk like me.  I am otherwise very healthy, work out religiously, grow my own vegetables and juice fruits and vegetables at least 5 times a week. I am not a smoker and I don’t  drink. I have a normal BMI and have no other health conditions.  I ran out of that office and went to UCSD in search of a doctor that actually listens.
My new doctor suggested that I start on a low dose Hydrea immediately and I declined.  I had research and information on my side-I was under 60, platelets under one million and otherwise very healthy with no other cardiovascular issues or dispositions.  So I declined once more and she agreed to monitor me.  After 18 months, I had a lot of headaches and could hardly feel my feet and my hands felt horrible, almost numb.  Again, I am a dentist, so this scared me and I agreed to do treatment but wanted to try Pegasys instead of Hydrea.  My doctor was very reluctant about Pegasys because she believed the side effects are not worth the benefits.  I produced a lot of studies and literature on how it works better for some people and in my mind I would rather be on Immunotherapy rather than Chemotherapy.  I did take Hydrea for one month while awaiting insurance authorization for Pegasys and I knew immediately that I was right in my intuition. It wasn’t the right treatment for me. I was nauseous all the time, couldn’t sleep, had major brain fog, red dots on my chest and legs, my nail beds even hurt.
The answer to my symptoms by a different doctor at UCSD was to take more drugs.  One to help me sleep, and an anti-nausea medication.  I am very much against taking drugs if I don’t have to so this didn’t sit well with me.  Not to mention, they wanted to increase my dose every week since my numbers weren’t coming down the way my doctor wanted them to.  For the first time since my diagnosis, I broke into tears because I knew I wouldn’t have a quality of life if I increased my dose of 2000 mg a day.  I have a demanding job and need to have a clear brain!  When my insurance authorized the Pegasys, my doctor agreed to let me try it and I have been doing great on it at 90 MCG per week and in one month my numbers are down to 920.
I am not suggesting Interferon is for everyone because you all know we are all different and respond differently to different medications.  In some studies that compare Pegasys to Hydrea the dosing of Pegasys was so high and toxic that patients dropped out, I would too.  But at a low steady dose, it is working for me. Someday, I may have to go back to Hydrea. No one knows how our bodies respond to certain drugs long-term but for me personally, I wanted Pegasys as my first line of treatment.  I am 50 years old and 20-30 years of Hydrea ahead of me was not going to be my first choice.
I guess the lesson I have learned and continue to learn is to be your own advocate, research and study your disease.  Doctors are busy people with perhaps thousands of patients.  I only have one disease and one patient; MYSELF.  I will continue to fight for what is right for my body and luckily I have a great doctor that listens to my wants and needs. If I didn’t, I wouldn’t hesitate to switch till I found the right doctor.
 

A Veteran’s Story: The Frustrations of Filing a Claim with the VA

By Wayne E.

MPN Patient and Vietnam Veteran Wayne E.

I served in the USAF Security Service, 6924th Security Squadron, stationed in Da Nang, Vietnam for one year (1970-1971) and was exposed to the deadly Agent Orange/Dioxin. In 2007, after a simple pre-op blood test, I was diagnosed with essential thrombocythemia (ET). Upon further study I was told I had an incurable, but manageable, blood cancer, coupled with a gene mutation (JAK2). The word cancer scared me. I had never heard of ET and I was at a loss for what to do. I didn’t know where to go next. After much reading about these potentially deadly diseases, I found out I was one of many Vietnam Veterans who had an MPN.

In 2011, I filed my first claim with the VA. Until this filing, I was unable to get any substantial information from my primary care physician (PHP) or my hematologist/oncologist, as to what may have caused or contributed to my ET. They knew virtually nothing about Agent Orange. I contacted the National Institutes of Health, The Centers for Disease Control, and as many online medical sites as possible, all ending with a bigger question mark. Nothing could be explained to satisfy my inquiry.

It was by chance that I connected with a most remarkable group, MPN Advocacy and Education International. I could never thank them enough for the compassion and the understanding they extended to me.

After my initial rejection from the VA, I filed three more times and each time I was denied because MPNs are not on the “presumptive” list of Agent Orange-related illnesses. The same message I kept getting was I needed “clinical rationale” to support my claims. My doctors have not been able to provide me with this needed information. I don’t know what to do today. I understand there are many Vietnam vets that have won their appeals and now get benefits, but there are many others who were not approved and just gave up. I don’t plan to give up.

To my fellow Vietnam Veterans who may be dealing with one of these MPNs, don’t give up. If you have been denied, file an appeal. There is hope, comfort, and assistance available. With the help of MPN Advocacy and Education International.

 Learn more about filing a claim with the VA

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