“There are only four kinds of people in the world: Those who have been caregivers. Those who
are currently caregivers. Those who will be caregivers, and those who will need a caregiver.”
– Rosalyn Carter
After caring for her father who passed from terminal leukemia when she was just 12 years old, Rosalyn Carter found herself caring for her widowed elderly grandfather. These early life experiences prompted former First Lady Rosalyn Carter to start the Rosalyn Carter Institute for Caregivers (RCIFG).
According to the RCIFG, there are currently 53 million caregivers in America. While each caregiver experience has its own unique set of circumstances, there are some experiences that were shared across cultures and disease-type. Issues such as finding time for self-care, building a caregiver support community, juggling complex schedules, increased financial burden, missing work, having to leave the workforce prematurely, or having to return to the workforce, possible feelings of exhaustion, guilt, resentment, and alienation from friends and family are some commonly reported experiences. Interestingly, in spite of the large number of caregivers in the US, the feeling most often communicated is that of isolation.
Here at MPNA&EI we want you to know that caregivers are in good company. We will have our first monthly online caregiver support group meeting on Thursday, February 15th from 12:00-1:00 pm EST. We would like this first meeting to be a time to connect, share information and set up for our subsequent meetings. Over the course of the year, we will discuss a range of topics from building relationships with professional caregivers to increase cooperation, understanding, and support, learning ways to cope with the stressors of being a caregiver, accessing resources, discovering ways to work together with others to reduce frustrations and barriers in the caregiver role, sharing common concerns, and most importantly recognizing that caregivers are not alone.
In the meantime, here are 10 tips for caregivers from the Caregiver Action Network:
- Connect with other caregivers (which you can do at our caregiver support group meeting on February 15th)
- Don’t forget to take care of your own health.
- Accept offers to help and suggest things people can do to help.
- Learn how to communicate effectively with doctors.
- Be open to new technologies that could help.
- Watch for signs of depression.
- Take breaks.
- Organize medical information so it’s up-to-date and easy to find.
- Make sure legal documents are in order
- Give yourself credit for doing the best you can at one of the toughest jobs!